Published by CNN.com

Written by Bill Perkins

“When you’re planning a vacation, you probably think about where you want to go, how you’ll get there, and what you want to do once you’re there. When you know all that, you can easily figure out how much money you’ll need to make this vacation a reality.”

“But when people are planning the biggest, longest vacation of their lives — their retirement — most don’t do any of that. They’re thinking about how to save money, where to invest these savings, and how to minimize their tax burden, and yet they have only a vague sense of how they want to spend their free time or what their health will enable them to do as they age.

“That’s the big error people make in planning for retirement: They’re focusing on the money, without nearly enough thought to the activities that they will actually be doing.

“Watching my dad in the last decade of his life brought this point home for me. My dad, who had played football for the New York Jets before becoming a lawyer and a politician, was a big, strong guy even in his 70s. But by then his knees bothered him, to the point where getting up and moving was too much of a hassle.

“I remember my older sister urging me to visit him and to say I was downstairs — she knew that that’s what it would take to get Dad to come down. He just didn’t want to leave his room for anybody else, not even for the physical therapy he needed.

“What really brought him joy at that point in his life was looking at an iPad I had filled with footage of him from his years as a college football star. As I watched him reminisce with pleasure about the glory days of his youth, it hit me: You don’t retire on your money — you retire on your memories! It was then that I realized I’d better create some meaningful memories now, and I’ve been doing that ever since.

“Planning your activities with timing in mind is essential for making the most of your money and your life now and into your retirement years. If you don’t think about your future activities, how can you possibly know how much money to save? You’ll either save too little, or you’ll risk becoming one of the millions of Americans who keep accumulating wealth well into their 60s and beyond.

“I know it sounds strange to call that a “risk,” as most people don’t think of accumulating wealth into old age as a negative, but that’s exactly my point: People need to realize that saving for too long is a waste if you delay gratification to the point where there is little to no gratification to be had.”

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